Monday, March 27, 2006
love is temporal,passion is forgettable, but pain stays with u.
i believe i've spoken about two faced people before. if not on this blog, then at least, in my mind. so there's no need for a repeat telecast of that although i have been thinking about such people, inevitably present in everyday life.
but what i want to say is. bitches are not called bitches for nothing. one is called a bitch because she really is one. based on facts from experience, first hand accounts. never gossip.
well of course, what comes to my mind are the reasons for why one would ever be termed as a bitch. extreme selfishness is no exception.
anyway, friends always take on the defensive role for their own friends, even if their friends are the most cruel bitches in the world wide web. nothing surprising because true friends are expected to side with their own friends, so all the more i see the truth and meaning in being unaffected by normality.
however, i always thought that its not about siding one another no matter what that makes two people true friends. its also about honestly enlightening the other person on his/her cruelty so that he/she could learn to be a better person.
why would one want to have a friend who simply agrees on everything whether or not one is right or wrong? how moral-less this world is, eh? and i'd rather have a robot for a friend then. yeap, that's how boring, and mundane it is.
i choose to live by this:
those who are hated by some, are loved by others. =) perhaps one should be glad to be hated, if one ever really is :) because the opposite of love is indifference. the fact that someone still cares enough to hate a person shows that he/she still showers some feelings on the "hated one". sweet!
anyway, everyone has a pas. but what matters is how they live each and every 'today' to the fullest. what a cliché. for those who are trying with all their might to bring others down to where their inner sorrows lie (or maybe just try to put people down) only shows that they are one-sided sadists who, unfortunately, live with the ability to see things from another's point of view. perhaps they never learnt the phrase of "put yourself in the shoes of others".
sometimes, i tend to look back and relocate my own faults, as well as others'. it has done me no good, as that only serves to ruin the way i feel now. but then again, it helps me to think and realise how happy i actually am now.
its amazing how things have changed. and its also amazing how some things and people never do.
emotional pain reminds me of a doggie walking along a newly-cemented path. paw-prints are left for years and years down the road, never leaving, never fading. the paw of the dog is the thing that inflicts the "pain", thus leaving a scar on the path that never goes away, ever.
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i'm not sure if i'm the only one who has an idea like this.
but i find it so hard to find a pretty girl who has a good & pure heart.
it seems that, once a girl knows and thinks that she's pretty, its the end of her character.
she starts to flaunt EVERYTHING as if she's the only one with boobs.
she starts to act as if the entire world is at her knees.
and she becomes arrogant. and ooh-so-flirty. (its flirty. NOT flirtylicious, NOT *slurp*.)
but of course, men, who are volunteer-victims, never fail to fall into the vixen's trap. they are just attracted to what they don't have, and are thus completely blinded to the intentions and poor character of such a woman.
how pitiful.
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i've been occasionally reading this blog for some time now.
missizzy.org
imo, its kewl that she airs her opinions (obviously openly and fearlessly -.-), with things making sense as they should be.
just like how men are simple creatures, who only want Food and Sex. in one of her entries, it is clearly and sufficiently proved with her experience. just a funny entry that tickled my funny bone. LOL. amusing.
sorry to say, but i love it when someone speaks of men in such a manner ;)
word of caution though, before starting to read anyone's blog at all, if u're not open to what others think, then please keep to yourself and not read what they have to say.
to some extent, i think i sound like i'm full of criticisms for men.
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nightey sweeties.
kiss.
bee at 2:27 AM